The Terrible Secret Most Marriages Can’t Survive

I have been practicing family law for over 40 years, and I have seen just about everything. I've witnessed numerous divorces in which spouses have had addition issues -- including alcohol, drugs, p*rnogr*phy and gambling -- that led to the divorce. Throughout the course of my career, I have represented both the addicted person and the spouse of the addict -- the addiction in these cases was to alcohol or prescription drugs. These addictions wreaked havoc on the marriage and led to the divorce. In two of these cases, I was representing the wives who were the ones with the problems.

 In each case, they lost custody of their children and were given some severe restrictions including treatment for alcohol and/or drug abuse, regular testing and counseling. Recently, I bumped into one of my clients who told me that she had been clean and sober for over 18 months. At the time of the divorce, she was not allowed to drive with her children and had very limited contact with her youngest child. Now, things had turned around to the point that she was sharing custody of her youngest child.

 Dealing with alcohol or drugs takes hard work, but this was a case where my client hit bottom, sought help, and has turned her life around. I'm currently involved in two cases where alcohol addiction has played a major role in the divorce. In the first case, I am representing the wife who is an alcoholic. Custody is not an issue because the son is about to turn 18. She is dealing with years of inpatient and outpatient treatment and she's in denial. She is trying her best to stay clean and sober but she has relapsed on occasion. 

 In the second case, I am representing a woman and her husband is an alcoholic. It has become so severe that he has passed out in the garage, passed out in their home and even has had episodes where he will black out and not remember where he has been for hours at a time. He has been getting treatment. The question is whether or not it will be successful. I believe that in many marriages where one spouse is the addict, the other spouse becomes the enabler. This can become a major part of the problem. 

I have seen situations where the addict spouses will be seeking help, trying to change the behavior, and the marriage will start falling apart because of the personality changes that result or the fact that things are no longer in balance. It is critical in all these cases that there be intervention and counseling. Even if the marriage cannot be salvaged, treatment and counseling is critical so that there can be life after alcohol or drugs. In our society, every television commercial, movie, and magazine ad is filled with alcohol and s*x. 

There is a lot of emphasis on the glamour of drinking, suggesting that if you have the right drink and you will end up the right man or woman -- but what about the aftermath? What about the human tragedy that addiction leads to? What about where it not only leads to divorce, but can result in a serious accident, injury or death? In my many years of practicing, I have seen a lot of problems involving addiction in divorce. There are clearly no winners.

 Unless someone receives help, not only is the marriage beyond repair but so are lives. The first step is admitting that you have a problem, and the next step is dealing with it. I have seen too many people in denial with tragic consequences. What are your thoughts
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Man Transforms Bus Into Two Bedroom Home

For many aspiring first-time buyers, home ownership is becoming a distant dream in the United States and abroad. While house prices have fallen in many areas, stricter mortgage lending rules and the struggle to raise a deposit for a home while paying rent have still managed to keep homeownership out of reach for some. 

 So when a self-employed auto electrician in the U.K. was unable to secure a mortgage, the 28-year-old Englishman decided to get creative, reports Kent Online. Daniel Bond and his 20-year-old girlfriend, Stacey Drinkwater, transformed a neglected double-decker bus into a two-bedroom home, notes the Daily Mail.

 The couple spent $17,265 on the bus and the renovation over four months, explains the Mirror. “The whole point of this was to make things affordable for us," Bond told the Mirror. “It feels like an ordinary house, you completely forget that it’s a real bus.”

 Decked out with a kitchen and a lounge, the bus even includes plumbing and a toilet and bath. The bus, a 1991 Leyland Olympia, was formerly used on routes in Dublin, Ireland and East Sussex, England.
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Former Israeli Prime Minister Dies

Former Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Shamir, who clung throughout his life to the belief that Israel should hang on to territory and never trust an Arab regime, has died. He was 96. Israeli media said Shamir died Saturday at a nursing home in the town of Herzliya, north of Tel Aviv. 

 Shamir served as prime minister for seven years, from 1983-84 and 1986-92, leading his party to election victories twice, despite lacking much of the outward charisma that characterizes many modern politicians. 

 Barely over five feet (1.52m) tall and built like a block of granite, Shamir projected an image of uncompromising solidity during the first intifada, or Palestinian uprising, in the West Bank and Gaza that demanded an end to Israeli occupation. Politicians across the Israeli political spectrum mourned the former leader's death Saturday. 

 "Yitzhak Shamir was a brave warrior before and after the founding of the State of Israel," said Israeli President Shimon Peres. "He was loyal to his views, a great patriot and a true lover of Israel who served his country with integrity and unending commitment. 

May his memory be blessed." Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu also paid tribute to Shamir, saying he "led Israel with a deep loyalty to the nation and to the land and to the eternal values of the Jewish people." 

 Defeated in the 1992 election, Shamir stepped down as head of the Likud party and watched from the sidelines as his successor, Yitzhak Rabin, negotiated interim land-for-peace agreements with the Palestinians. The agreements, including Palestinian leader Yasser Arafat's recognition of Israel, did nothing to ease his suspicion.
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Islam forbids killing and bombings

Lt. Col Ishaq Rano, Assistant Director, Islamic Affairs of the Nigerian Army, says that killing and bombing of Churches by the Boko Haram sect is forbidden in Islam. Rano, who spoke during the special Juma’at prayer to commemorate the 2012 Nigerian army day celebration in Jos, said Boko Haram members were not “good Muslims” and termed their actions as “haram”. 

 “We are praying to God to touch Boko Haram to stop killing innocent people, to stop killing Christians and to stop killing security personnel. “In Islam, killing is not allowed, it is forbidden in Islam to kill anybody.” 

 Rano emphasised that nobody had the right to kill anybody, adding that only a court of law could condemn a person. “Even if a person commits a crime in your presence, you can’t kill him or her, but you can take him or her to the law court. 

 “If Boko Haram members claim to be Muslims, then they are not good Muslims. They are only bearing Muslim names, they do not know Islam.” Rano, who is also the Chief Imam of 3 Division of the Nigerian army, lamented the current security challenge facing the country. “The Armed Forces and the country are no longer in peace. 

So this special Juma’at prayer is to pray for peace, stability and religious tolerance in the armed forces and in our dear country. “We are praying for the Almighty God to continue to keep Nigeria as one country. We are also praying to God to destroy anybody or group within or outside the country causing trouble.”
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Police detonate bombs in Jos

Two bombs planted on Saturday on a bridge in Riyom, some 40 kilometres from Jos, the Plateau capital, have been detonated, the state Police Command has said. Spokesman of the Command, Abu Emmanuel, told reporters in Jos, that the bombs were planted on the bridge linking Gol-Hoss and Riyom, the headquarters of Riyom Local Government Area.

 “Today, at about 0200 hours, suspected terrorists went and planted bombs on a bridge linking Gol-Hoss and the headquarters of Riyom Local Government Area. “Following a tip-off, a Police anti-bomb squad led by ASP Abel Mbibi, went to the scene and we were able to detonate and evacuate the bombs,” Emmanuel said.

 Emmanuel said that the detonation of the bombs was done without any damage to the bridge and that no casualty was recorded during the operation. The spokesman said that no arrest had been made in connection with the incident but that investigation had commenced.
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Man 'Commits Suicide' After Guilty Verdict

Michael Marin was found guilty of deliberately burning down his $3.5m (£2.2m) Phoenix, Arizona, mansion. Now Maricopa County sheriff's deputies are investigating whether the 53-year-old put something in his mouth that led to his death after the verdict was read out. 

 "We will have to wait until we get toxicology reports from the medical examiner until we can confirm if he did and what the substance was," sheriff's spokesman Jeff Sprong said in a statement. When Marin's trial began in May, prosecutors said he faced up to 16 years in prison if convicted. 

 Video from inside the courtroom showed Marin putting his hands over his eyes after the verdict was read and then covering his mouth with both hands. As Judge Bruce Cohen and lawyers were holding discussions and the jury was out of the courtroom, Marin's face suddenly turned red and he began to make throat-clearing noises before he collapsed to the floor. 

 Marin's attorneys tried to assist him and paramedics were called. They performed chest compressions but he was pronounced dead in hospital. Prosecutors claimed Marin set fire to his mansion in July 2009 after failing to sell it at a charity auction. The court heard Marin could not afford the monthly mortgage of $17,500 (£11,150) and was due to make a payment of $2.3m.

 Authorities said Marin escaped the fire by climbing down a rope ladder while wearing a scuba tank and diving mask to protect himself from the smoke. Marin was a former attorney, banker and art collector who had nearly $900,000 (£573,000) in the bank in 2008 but only $50 (£32) at the time of the fire, a newspaper reported.
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Scientist invents way to keep people alive even when they can't breathe

Scientists have discovered a new way of administering oxygen to the blood which could allow people to stay alive without breathing. The amazing breakthrough could change medical science by eliminating the need to keep patients breathing during complex operations. 

The procedure, which works by injecting oxygen molecules enclosed in fatty molecules directly into the bloodstream, could grant people an extra 30 minutes of life when they cannot breathe. 

 John Kheir, of the Boston Children's Hospital, was inspired to begin his groundbreaking research after he experienced a patient's tragic death, according to ScienceDaily. He was operating on a young girl whose pneumonia led to fatal brain damage after doctors were unable to place her on a breathing apparatus in time to save her.
In response, Dr Kheir started working on the idea of bypassing the pulmonary system and inserting oxygen directly into the blood. Early experiments showed that the intervention could in theory be very successful, he said: 'We drew each other's blood, mixed it in a test tube with the microparticles, and watched blue blood turn immediately red, right before our eyes.' 

However, injecting pure oxygen into the bloodstream in gas form failed miserably when it was attempted 100 years ago, as it formed dangerous bubbles in the veins. Much of Dr Kheir's research therefore involved finding a substance which could enclose the oxygen and allow it to be suspended in a liquid for injection into the body.

 He found that using fatty molecules called lipids was the best way to retain oxygen after using sound waves to trap the two substances together into particles so small they can only be seen with the help of a microscope. The particles were then made up into a liquid which is very heavily oxygenated - carrying 'three to four times the oxygen content of our own red blood cells', according to Dr Kheir. 

When the liquid solution was injected into animals with abnormally low levels of blood oxygen, their blood returned to normal within seconds. And when it was administered to animals which were entirely unable to breathe, they remained alive for 15 minutes and were at lower risk of health complications. When used on humans, the oxygen could probably last for up to 30 minutes, though injecting it for any longer could damage the patient's blood.

 'This is a short-term oxygen substitute - a way to safely inject oxygen gas to support patients during a critical few minutes,' Dr Kheir said. He added that he thought the technique could become routine for doctors and parademics dealing with emergency situations. 'Eventually, this could be stored in syringes on every code cart in a hospital, ambulance or transport helicopter to help stabilise patients who are having difficulty breathing,' he said.
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JTF arrests suspected oil pipeline bomber

The Military Joint Task Force (JTF) in the Niger Delta has arrested an ex-militant commander, Mr Seiyefa Gbereke, for sabotage on petroleum pipelines. Gbereke, alias “Gen. Cairo’’, who is alleged to be a pipeline bomber in the region, was paraded before newsmen in Yenagoa on Friday by the JTF Media Coordinator, Lt.-Col. Onyema Nwachukwu. 

 Nwachukwu told newsmen that the suspect had confessed that he vandalised numerous pipeline in Delta and Bayelsa. “The suspect is vicious and notorious in the act of pipeline bombings and vandalism and had been on our radar over the past three months,” Nwachukwu said. 

 According to him, Gbereke confessed during interrogation by JTF Commander, Maj.-Gen Johnson Ochoga, to the bombing of Agip Manifold and trunk lines at Azagbene and Biseni communities in Bayelsa. Nwachukwu said he also confessed to the destruction of two oil wells that caused pollution of waters in Berisindi, adding that Gbereke made his confessions “willingly and voluntarily”. 

 He said the suspect also admitted leading his eight-man gang to carry out other pipeline attacks in the creeks of Warri and the destruction of Shell Petroleum Development Corporation (SPDC) pipeline at Tuomo. The JTF spokesman said that Gbereke, 25, hailed from Bolou Orua community in the Sagbama Local Government Area of Bayelsa. He said that the suspect had being hiding in Bonny Island in Rivers and Warri in Delta.

 “We have been hunting him and his gang; so only yesterday (Thursday) our intelligence operatives tracked him down at Warri in Delta and lured him out of his hideout down to the JTF headquarters here in Yenagoa.’’ Gbereke,who claimed leadership of the Movement for the Survival of Niger Delta Disarmed Youths, said he was an ex-militant before the amnesty proclamation and had led a 7,000-man army. He claimed he carried out pipeline bombings to draw government’s attention to the plight of his group. 

 The suspect said that his group had submitted 9,000 assorted arms and ammunition under the third phase amnesty but were yet to be documented by the authorities. “It is the government that said we should submit arms and that we will be registered under the third phase of the amnesty programme. “But up till date, my group is yet to be documented. 

We carried out numerous open protest and blocking of highways. “We even petitioned Hon. Kinsley Kuku, the Amnesty Director, and also attempted to take our protest to Abuja but we were stopped by security agents at Lokoja. “Upon all these our efforts, government refused to listen to us,’’ he said. 

 Gbereke said that following his helpless situation, his gang resolved to attack oil pipelines to get the authorities to register them under the third phase amnesty programme. The JTF spokesman said the suspect would remain in the custody of taskforce until investigation into his activities was completed.
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Again, Nigeria Ranked 14th Failed Country



NIGERIA now ranks among the top 10 failed states in Africa and 14th in the world, a global body, the Fund For Peace (FFP) declared in its 2012 annual Index Data released on Friday.

The war-torn Somalia tops the global list, which comprised 177 countries with Congo Democratic Republic and Sudan ranked second and third respectively.

Afghanistan, which had for several years, interchangeably dominated the number one spot, dropped to number six, after Chad and Zimbabwe which placed fourth and fifth in that order.

FFP is an independent, non-partisan non-profit research and educational organisation that works to prevent violent conflict and promote sustainable security.

Going by the latest index data, Nigeria has gained two points having been ranked eight failed state in the continent, while she retained the 14th in the world.

The country trails behind Pakistan, Guinea, Cote d’Ivoire, Central African Republic, Iraq, Yemen and Haiti.

According to the FFP, a total of 12 criteria were applied in arriving at the ranking that showed a relative better rating for such other African countries like Madagascar, Comoros Island, Djibouti, Libya, Zambia, Burkina Faso, Togo, Mauritania, Malawi and Rwanda than Nigeria among the list of the failed states.

Some of the core criteria included security apparatus, factionalised elite, legitimacy of the state, external intervention, poverty and economic decline, uneven development, group grievance and demographic pressures, human flight and public services.

Some of these factors, which had become pronounced in the country in the last couple of years, have culminated in restiveness among the citizens and triggered calls for a national conference to enable the country chart a new course.

But the establishment has consistently toed the path of constitutional amendment, ostensibly because of the demand in many quarters for a conference with sovereign powers.

Besides, the nation has been contending with security challenges across the country, some of which include the menace of banditry and kidnapping in some states in the southern part of the country.

However, the greatest security challenge had been the activities of the Boko Haram sect, whose members have persistently engaged in serial bombings with the accompany deaths of hundreds of innocent cities and destruction of invaluable property.

The frightening dimension of the mindless killings had led to some senior citizens warning against what they described as the Somalialisation of the country in apparent reference to Somalia, which has been remained ungovernable owing to the endless activities of factional groups trying to control the North African country.

It neither has a central government nor any regional government that could claim to be in charge of its sovereignty.

Nigeria has remained in the top bracket of countries categorized as failed nations in the last three years.

Soyinka’s Warning Of Somalia, Boko Haram Menace, Economic Crises. According to the domentary, some countries fail spectacularly, with a total collapse of all state institutions, as in Afghanistan after the Soviet withdrawal and the hanging of President Mohammad Najibullah from a lamppost, or during the decade-long civil war in Sierra Leone, where the government ceased to exist altogether.

Most countries that fall apart, however, do so not with a bang but with a whimper. They fail not in an explosion of war and violence but by being utterly unable to take advantage of their society’s huge potential for growth, condemning their citizens to a lifetime of poverty. This type of slow, grinding failure leaves many countries in sub-Saharan Africa, Asia, and Latin America with living standards far, far below those in the West.

What’s tragic is that this failure is by design. These states collapse because they are ruled by what is called “extractive” economic institutions, which destroy incentives, discourage innovation, and sap the talent of their citizens by creating a tilted playing field and robbing them of opportunities. These institutions are not in place by mistake but on purpose. They’re there for the benefit of elites who gain much from the extraction — whether in the form of valuable minerals, forced labour, or protected monopolies — at the expense of society. Of course, such elites benefit from rigged political institutions too, wielding their power to tilt the system for their benefit.

But states built on exploitation inevitably fail, taking an entire corrupt system down with them and often leading to immense suffering.

North Korea: Lack of Property Rights
North Korea's economic institutions make it almost impossible for people to own property; the state owns everything, including nearly all land and capital. Agriculture is organized via collective farms. People work for the ruling Korean Workers' Party, not themselves, which destroys their incentive to succeed.

North Korea could be much wealthier. In 1998, a U.N. mission found that many of the country's tractors, trucks, and other farm machinery were simply unused or not maintained. Beginning in the 1980s, farmers were allowed to have their own small plots of land and sell what they grew. But even this hasn't created much incentive, given the country's endemic lack of property rights. In 2009, the government introduced a revalued currency and allowed people to convert only 100,000 to 150,000 won of the old currency into the new one (equivalent to about $35 to $40 at the black-market exchange rate). People who had worked and saved up stocks of the old currency found it to be worthless.

Not only has North Korea failed to grow economically -- while South Korea has grown rapidly -- but its people have literally failed to flourish. Trapped in this debilitating cycle, North Koreans are not only much poorer than South Koreans but also as much as 3 inches shorter on average than the neighbors from whom they have been cut off for the last six decades.

Uzbekistan: Forced labour
Coercion is a surefire way to fail. Yet, until recently, at least in the scope of human history, most economies were based on the coercion of workers -- think slavery, serfdom, and other forms of forced labor. In fact, the list of strategies for getting people to do what they don't want to do is as long as the list of societies that relied on them. Forced labor is also responsible for the lack of innovation and technological progress in most of these societies, ranging from ancient Rome to the U.S. South.

Modern Uzbekistan is a perfect example of what that tragic past looked like. Cotton is among Uzbekistan's biggest exports. In September, as the cotton bolls ripen, the schools empty of children, who are forced to pick the crop. Instead of educators, teachers become labor recruiters. Children are given daily quotas from between 20 to 60 kilograms, depending on their age.

The main beneficiaries of this system are President Islam Karimov and his cronies, who control the production and sale of the cotton. The losers are not only the 2.7 million children coerced to work under harsh conditions in the cotton fields instead of going to school, but also Uzbek society at large, which has failed to break out of poverty. Its per capita income today is not far from its low level when the Soviet Union collapsed -- except for the income of Karimov's family, which, with its dominance of domestic oil and gas exploration, is doing quite well.

Egypt: The big men get greedy
When elites control an economy, they often use their power to create monopolies and block the entry of new people and firms. This was exactly how Egypt worked for three decades under Hosni Mubarak. The government and military owned vast swaths of the economy -- by some estimates, as much as 40 percent.

Even when they did "liberalize," they privatised large parts of the economy right into the hands of Mubarak's friends and those of his son, Gamal. Big businessmen close to the regime, such as Ahmed Ezz (iron and steel), the Sawiris family (multimedia, beverages, and telecommunications), and Mohamed Nosseir (beverages and telecommunications) received not only protection from the state but also government contracts and large bank loans without needing to put up collateral.

Together, these big businessmen were known as the "whales." Their stranglehold on the economy created fabulous profits for regime insiders, but blocked opportunities for the vast mass of Egyptians to move out of poverty. Meanwhile, the Mubarak family accumulated a vast fortune estimated as high as $70 billion.

Somalia: No law and order
One must-have for successful economies is an effective centralised state. Without this, there is no hope of providing order, an effective system of laws, mechanisms for resolving disputes, or basic public goods.

Yet large parts of the world today are still dominated by stateless societies. Although countries like Somalia or the new country of South Sudan do have internationally recognized governments, they exercise little power outside their capitals, and maybe not even there. Both countries have been built atop societies that historically never created a centralized state but were divided into clans where decisions were made by consensus among adult males. No clan was ever able to dominate or create a set of nationally respected laws or rules. There were no political positions, no administrators, no taxes, no government expenditures, no police, no lawyers -- in other words, no government.

This situation persisted during the colonial period in Somalia, when the British were unable even to collect poll taxes, the usual fiscal basis for their African colonies. Since independence in 1960, attempts have been made to create an effective central state, for example, during the dictatorship of Mohamed Siad Barre, but after more than five decades it's fair and even obvious to say they have failed. Call it Somalia's law: Without a central state, there can be no law and order; without law and order, there can be no real economy; and without a real economy, a country is doomed to fail.

Colombia: A weak central government
Colombia isn't Somalia. All the same, its central government is unable or unwilling to exert control over probably half the country, which is dominated by left-wing guerrillas, most famously the FARC, and, increasingly, right-wing paramilitaries. The drug lords may be on the run, but the state's absence from much of the country leads not only to lack of public services such as roads and health care, but also to lack of well-defined, institutionalized property rights.

Thousands of rural Colombians have only informal titles or titles lacking any legal validity. Although this does not stop people from buying and selling land, it undermines their incentives to invest -- and the uncertainty often leads to violence. During the 1990s and early 2000s, for example, an estimated 5 million hectares of land were expropriated in Colombia, typically at gunpoint. The situation got so bad that in 1997, the central government allowed local authorities to ban land transactions in rural areas. The result? Many parts of Colombia essentially fail to take part in modern economic activities, instead languishing in poverty, not to mention proving to be fertile havens for armed insurgents and paramilitary forces of both the left and right.

Calca and nearby Acomayo are two Peruvian provinces. Both are high in the mountains, and both are inhabited by the Quechua-speaking descendants of the Incas. Both grow the same crops, yet Acomayo is much poorer, with its inhabitants consuming about one-third less than those in Calca. The people know this. In Acomayo, they ask intrepid foreigners, "Don't you know that the people here are poorer than the people over there in Calca? Why would you ever want to come here?"

Indeed, it is much harder to get to Acomayo from the regional capital of Cusco, the ancient center of the Inca Empire, than it is to get to Calca. The road to Calca is paved, while the one to Acomayo is in terrible disrepair. To get beyond Acomayo you need a horse or a mule -- not due to any differences in topography, but because there are no paved roads. In Calca, they sell their corn and beans on the market for money, while in Acomayo they grow the same crops for their own subsistence.

Acomayo's people are one-third poorer than Calca's as a result. Infrastructure matters.

Peru: Bad public services
Calca and nearby Acomayo are two Peruvian provinces. Both are high in the mountains, and both are inhabited by the Quechua-speaking descendants of the Incas. Both grow the same crops, yet Acomayo is much poorer, with its inhabitants consuming about one-third less than those in Calca. The people know this. In Acomayo, they ask intrepid foreigners, "Don't you know that the people here are poorer than the people over there in Calca? Why would you ever want to come here?"

Indeed, it is much harder to get to Acomayo from the regional capital of Cusco, the ancient center of the Inca Empire, than it is to get to Calca. The road to Calca is paved, while the one to Acomayo is in terrible disrepair. To get beyond Acomayo you need a horse or a mule -- not due to any differences in topography, but because there are no paved roads. In Calca, they sell their corn and beans on the market for money, while in Acomayo they grow the same crops for their own subsistence.

Acomayo's people are one-third poorer than Calca's as a a result. Infrastructure matters.

Sierra Leone: Fighting over the spoils
Intense extraction breeds instability and failure because, consistent with the iron law of oligarchy, it creates incentives for others to depose the existing elites and take over.

This is exactly what happened in Sierra Leone. Siaka Stevens and his All People's Congress (APC) party ran the country from 1967 until 1985 as their personal fiefdom. Little changed when Stevens stepped aside, passing the baton to his protégé, Joseph Momoh, who just continued the plunder.

The trouble is that this sort of extraction creates deep-seated grievances and invites contests for power from would-be strongmen hoping to get their hands on the loot. In March 1991, Foday Sankoh's Revolutionary United Front, with the support and most likely the command of Liberian dictator Charles Taylor, crossed into Sierra Leone and plunged the country into a vicious, decade-long civil war. Sankoh and Taylor were interested in only one thing: power, which they could use, among other things, to steal diamonds, and they could do so because of the regime that Stevens and his APC had created. The country soon descended into chaos, with the civil war taking the lives of about 1 percent of the population and maiming countless others. Sierra Leone's state and institutions totally collapsed. Government revenues went from 15 percent of national income to practically zero by 1991. The state, in other words, didn't so much fail as disappear entirely.
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OPEN CONFESSION: I Sacrificed My Manh**d For Money(A MUST READ)



I joined the church of Satan, I sacrificed a baby, I drank blood and so many other things, which I shouldn’t have done. I also sold myself to the devil for fifty years.” This confession summed up the story of a 29 year old businessman who in his quest to be rich joined four occult groups where he committed the worst of abominations. 

 At 21, Steven Kofi (not real name) from West coast in Ghana, began his journey into the occult world by joining the church of Satan international before going deeper to join others uch as the score and bone cult, region of doom and free mercy debunked all in his bid to make wealth.

 A once vibrant man with wife and a child along with a prospering oil business had to abdicate his matrimonial responsibility to his wife for eight (8) years after sacrificing his manhood as a condition for wealth. Faced with the threat of death after being given a 49 day ultimatum to live, the Ghanaian ran after God and recently got a relief in Lagos during the Lord’s Chosen Church programme, “Time To Recover All” where Saturday Sun had an encounter with him.

 How did he join such groups at an early stage in life? “The story started in my final year at the university of Ghana, I was studying oil and gas engineering, I got my master degree in oil and gas engineering. At the final year, things were so tough for me that I needed to finish my education, but there was no way to get financial help, at the end of the day I consulted my parents but it was fruitless”, he stated.  

According to him,“usually I chat with somebody on the internet that helps me with money. He is a man and that was before I later got married to a Norwegian lady in 2003. We had a kid before she travelled, but she usually call me on phone once in while, at that time, I called her for financial help but she didn’t have any cash.” He said the person who used to assist him complained that he could not continue sending money to him, and as such, he has to fend for himself.

 “He told me that he cannot continue sending me money. He said I have to work for myself, and I asked him, how, he said you have to do it on your own”, he stated adding that from that point he decided to locate the church of Satan in Ghana where he was told that his initiation would be done in far away Califonia, USA. In deed, travel documents were prepared for him and he travelled to ground Lodge at Early Noise in Califonia where his initiation took place.

 He said after the initiation process, he demanded to see the devil, and was asked to write a request letter to the devil which he did. His request was granted within two weeks, and he was able to meet face to face with the devil who asked him to make three wishes, adding that his third wish for long life could not be granted because church members only live within the space of thirty years after joining the church of Satan.

 “The devil demanded that I make three wishes from him, which I consented to, that I want to be famous, wealthy and live long, but the third one he refused to grant, disagreeing to the idea that any one that joins the church of Satan will always live for thirty years, once you join at 20, you live till 50. This I agreed to because I was eager for money”, Kofi stressed.

 He further disclosed that after joining the church of Satan, Satanic Bible was made available to him, sword of slaughter, initiation glove, Suit and other items. He however explained that he didn’t lose his manhood until he added another feather to his cap in the occult world by joining yet another group. 

“When I joined the Score and bone society, that’s when I sacrificed my manhood to increase my wealth”, he added. Beside the monetary gains from the cults, he was also sent on an assignment which is to win souls for the kingdom of Satan. Through this, he has won more than 23 souls for Satan, using the advantage of the wealth he was given. “Boys and girls who are eager for money, wealth, I show them the way.

 I have offices in Port-Harcourt, Warri, Abuja, Ghana, I give them what to do and they begin to make money on their own and also teach them how to join and I send them over”, he added. How did this bring joy to his parents? Kofi said after making money, he decided to open a plaza for his mother in Ghana, but she rejected the offer, claiming that it was a blood money, because of her attachment to Christ and a vision she saw in which she saw the source of his wealth. 

But his father and siblings accepted him. His trouble however started after he became uncomfortable with his life. At that point, he began to look for powerful pastors that could save his life. When his cults discovered he was going astray, he was penalized and given only 49 days to live. “I was given 49 days to live, I have spent 19 days, and it remains 30 days, before deliverance came to me through Pastor Mouka of the Lord’s Chosen”, he stated. 

 Having learnt some bitter lessons, Kofi is advising youths not to covet what others have while urging parents to restrict what their children watch on television screens. On his manhood that was restored during the deliverance session, Kofi said “I give God all the glory that my manhood was restored back, am happy now that I can make more babies again.”
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SHOCKER! 2 Members Of A Royal Family Arrested For Armed Robbery

Two members of one of the ruling royal families in Ogun State said to be dangerous armed robbers met their waterloo on Sunday when men of the Nigeria Customs Service, NCS, in Ogun State intercepted them with a blood-stained jeep that was robbed in Lagos. Nemesis caught up with the duo, identified as Ademola Adeniyi and Ajayi Adesina, after they were said to have offered the sum of N500,000 to the customs officers to evade arrest shortly after a robbery operation at 5am. 

Their attempts were however rebuffed by the men of the Customs who insisted that they must face the music. The Comptroller of Customs in the state, Akande Bamidele who paraded the suspects before handing them over to police said Adesina was initially arrested with Acura MDX Jeep with no number plate and later his colleague in crime, Ademola, was also nabbed with one Passat marked, Abuja KWL 560 AA, in Ewekoro, Ogun State. 

 Addressing newsmen shortly before the display of 406 cartons of frozen poultry products worth three million naira, the comptroller said Ajayi was initially arrested with the blood-stained Acura and he later called his alleged ring leader, Ademola on phone to rescue him. The Customs boss further disclosed that the second suspect, Ademola later arrived the scene and offered the custom officers bribe to release Adesina. 

According to him, the suspects who were later handed over to the police in the state made confessional statements confirming that they rob at gun point at Bariga in Lagos that Sunday. While receiving the suspects on behalf of the police state command, the Head of Ogun Police Command state Criminal Investigations Department, Mr. Fola Ogunkoya promised to investigate the case and subsequently charge them to court.
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Niger-Delta Youths Set For Showdown

A coalition of youth groups in the Niger Delta region are set for a showdown with the Federal Government over alleged mismanagement of funds by the management and Governing Board of the Niger Delta Development Commission (NDDC).

 Ahead of a planned mass rally in Abuja, Nigeria’s capital city, the groups, working under the aegis of the Niger Delta Justice and Mass Movement (NDJMM), have handed a seven-day ultimatum to the authorities at the NDDC within which to make available specific information on the funds and activities at the interventionist agency or face legal action.

 Besides, the youths have also taken their case to the international community and the Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission (ICPC) for intervention and a probe into the activities at the NDDC, alleging procedural irregularities in the award of contracts and other acts of corruption. 

 Riding on the platform of the provisions of the Freedom of Information(FoI) Act, the coalition has through an Abuja-based legal firm, Ifeanyi Nrialike & Co, requested the management of the NDDC to provide details of financial position of the agency, and contracts awarded. 

 In a letter to the managing director of the NDDC, Dr. Chris Oboh ,dated June 18, 2012, and signed on their behalf by their counsel, Barrister Ifeanyi Nrialike, the youths specifically demanded to be availed with information on the total sum of funds which had accrued to the Commission from the inauguration of the present Governing Board on November 28, 2011. 

 They also want to be informed on the amount of money received as allocation from the Federal Government, donor organizations, and internally generated revenue through the Companies Registration Department of the Commission, as well as names of companies awarded contracts; specific contracts awarded since the inception of the current Governing Board, and the value for each contract. 

 In the same vein, they want information on funds disbursed by the Board since November 28, 2011, payments made to companies undertaking ongoing projects, title of projects; amount of money so far paid, and proof of remittance of the various taxes collected by the Commission to the appropriate quarters.
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No Timeline to End Boko Haram Bombings

Not even the new National Security Adviser (NSA) retired Col Sambo Dasuki is in a position to say when and how the menace of the dreaded Islamic sect Boko Haram will end. The new NSA in a statement Friday expressed optimism that the menace will soon end but would not give any timeline to end the crisis. 

 Also Friday, the Chief of Army Staff, Lt. General Azubuike Ihejirika promised to deploy more troops to Kano to halt the Boko Haram attacks in the state. Dasuki in a statement issued by his Special Assistant on Media, Karounwi Adekunle denied reports quoting him as putting a timeline to the end of Boko Haram. 

 The NSA who is on tour of some states where Boko Haram attacks have been rampant was quoted in some media reports to have said that an end will come to Boko Haram hostility before the commencement of Ramadan Fast. However, Adekunle said: "The NSA never at any forum in Potiskum and Damaturu, both in Yobe State or in Maiduguri, Borno State said he will bring an end to the sect's hostility before the start of Ramadan Fast.

 His cogent message in all the meetings he's held so far with some stakeholders is the need for leaders to reach out and prevail on Boko Haram members to cease fire so as to create room for dialogue." "This clarification has become necessary to avoid further spread of this misinformation and unnecessary insinuations." 

 During the visit to the two troubled states, Dasuki sympathized with citizens and assured them of the Federal Government’s determination to find a peaceful and lasting solution to the Boko Haram menace. Dasuki had also appealed to residents to co-operate with security agencies by providing information while assuring informants of protection and the highest level of confidentiality. 

 Meanwhile, the COAS who was in Kano to mark this year’s Army Day, told journalists after his one day visit to the state that the military has been tackling the daunting challenges in some parts of the country with utmost professionalism. “I’m happy with the troops sent to the state (Kano) to provide security. 

They have been tackling the security challenges with utmost professionalism. “I’ve always cautioned my men to always show professionalism and protect women, children and other law abiding citizens, whom they have been doing even at the time we lose our men in some operations.” 

 The chief of army staff also expressed appreciation with Kano State Government for its support to the military and further commended sister security agencies for their co-operation. According to him, the security challenge facing the country was “a contemporary challenge”, which will soon give way pointing out that his vision was to transform the Nigerian army so that it can face the challenges adequately. 

 The COAS who later addressed the troops, gave them a pat on the back and assured them of continued training exercise; improved welfare and immediate replacement from the field to enable them rest and meet their family members. The chief of army staff had earlier paid a courtesy visits on the Emir of Kano, Alhaji Ado Bayero, the state governor, Dr. Rabi’u Musa Kwankwaso as well as commissioned the magnificent office complex of the 3rd Brigade, Kano. 

 The Emir, Alhaji Ado Bayero, who was represented by Wamban Kano, Alhaji Abbas Sanusi assured the army chief of the emirate’s readiness to co-operate with the military in bringing back peace to the state. On his part, the state governor, Dr. Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso also assured of government’s readiness at supporting the military to achieve the goal of bringing lasting peace to the state.
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Reckless driver kills corps member

CORPS members serving in Akure, the Ondo state capital wept profusely when a reckless driver knocked down and killed one of them. Saturday Vanguard gathered that the deceased, Olaniyan Tosin Michael with call up number 0D/11c/0301 was going for the weekly Community Development service CDSwhen he met his untimely death. 

 Eyewitness account said that the driver identified as Olaoluwa Fasemo, a staff of Coop cocoa Industry in Akure was on speed when the deceased was crossing the road at about 9am on Thurday. The deceased was said to be going to the Akure South Local Government Secretariat to collect some document required for his CDS. 

 An eyewitness account said that the noise of passers-by drew the attention of everybody to the scene. A corp member, Kemi Omilana said most of the corps members who were at the council secretariat rushed to the scene and discovered that one of them was lying helplessly on his own blood. Omilana alledged that the driver after the ugly incident abandoned his vehicle in the middle of the road and ran away. 

 The deceased was rushed to the state Hospital in Akure but had to be referred to the Federal Medical Centre FMC in Owo for further treatment. It was however learnt that he died that same night she was rushed to FMC Owo. Confirming the incident, the NYSC spokesperson in the state, Mrs. Christy Olatoye, described the news of the death of the corps member as a rude shock to the agency.

 Olatoye said the NYSC in the state had informed the family of the late Olaniyan. The deceased was posted to Goodnews Grammer School, .Fadeyi Street, Osinle Akure for her primary assignment. Police Image Makere Adeniran Aremu confirmed the incident Aremu said that the driver had been arrested while his vehicle had also been impounded. He added that the suspect will soon be charged to court
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Two students of Fidei Polytechnic killed in cult violence

Two students of Fidei Polytechnic, Gboko have been confirmed dead in a cult related crisis that engulfed the institution yesterday. The death occurred against the backdrop of reports that the Benue State Police Command recovered a box full of AK 47 live ammunition from four suspects who were hauling the arms to the crisis torn Eggon and Alaago communities of Nasarawa State.

 Briefing newsmen yesterday on the two incidents, the Deputy Police Public Relations Officer for Benue State, ASP Ejike Alaribe said the police in Gboko last night received a report that two suspected cultists had at 8pm stormed the home of two students of Fidei Polytechnic and shot one of them whose name was given as Akawa on the neck, thus killing him instantly.

 Alaribe noted that Akawa died before he could receive medical attention, adding that when the news of his death filtered into the institution, students mobilized themselves and went after the assailants. According to him, “They caught up with the two suspects who were identified as being responsible for the shooting, matcheted one of them to death but the police arrived the scene before they meted out jungle justice on the other”. 

 Alaribe said further that two other suspects identified as having a hand in the shooting were also arrested by the police. On the recovered box of AK47 live ammunition, he said, the four suspects were arrested with the ammunition along the Makurdi-Lafia road by men of the joint operation task force christened ‘Operation Zenda” following a directive by the state Commisdioner of Police that patrols be intensified throughout the state.

 He said the suspects who were riding in a Peugeot wagon with registration number Lagos, BE 222 KRD were flagged down for routine check by the security operatives but declined. ”Our men pursued them; they tried to run into the bush, but our men caught up with them and arrested them with minimal force and when a thorough search was conducted on the car and the suspects, the box of live ammunition, charms, knives, N96,500 cash, and three hand sets were recovered from the suspects”, the Deputy PPRO added.
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$20,000 Disappears From Passenger's Luggage At Lagos Airport Screening Point

Corruption is not new in Nigeria. It is found among poor, rich and among leaders that took an oath to serve the country with truthfulness. Federal Airports Authority of Nigeria (FAAN) is a government organisation enmeshed in corruption has again been confirmed following the arrest of the organisation's two security officials by the Inspector General of Police monitoring team on Wednesday for stealing $20,000 from a passenger's baggage.

 The security officials, who have been flown to Abuja on the order of the Inspector General of Police, Muhammed Abubakar, were said to have stolen the money from the baggage of an airline operator during the screening of his baggage at the screening point of the Murtala Muhammed Airport terminal one. 

 According to the airline operator who does not want his name in print for now, trouble started when he was to board a 6.5 a.m. flight on First Nation to Abuja to perform a national exercise. Getting to the screening point of the departure hall of the MMA2 terminal, as expected, he positioned his hand luggage on the screening machine and walked through the screening being conducted on passengers by the FAAN security officials.
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NIGERIA IS HEADING FOR BREAK UP –Bishop Oyedepo

“I want to believe that what we have on our hands today is an islamisiation agenda being propagated and sponsored by some religious bigots who are poised for war, and if government does not decisively stem down this tide, Nigeria may cease to be a nation.”

 The Chancellor of Covenant University, Bishop David Oyedepo, has called for a comprehensive overhaul of Nigeria's security apparatus with a view to check mating the wicked acticvities of those he called ‘religious bigots’ scheming to Islamise Nigeria through repeated attacks on churches. 

 Oyedepo also urged the Federal Government to be more committed to the insecurity problem, failure of which he noted, may lead to disintegration. In his address titled - Towards the rescue of a nation on the brink of collapse: Necessity for a new generation of thinkers - delivered at the seventh convocation of Covenant University on Friday, Oyedepo said consistent attacks by Boko Haram leaves much suspicion in its trail. 

 He noted that if Boko Haram members are agitating for their rights as they claim, government institutions rather that churches should have been their targets. “Now let us think: If Boko Haram, as claimed by some of their symphatisers, is fighting the government for its rights, the question is, is it the church that is depriving them of such rights?

 If the bombs in the North are just reactions to class oppression or poverty in the nation, why are mosques exempted from bombs? He continued: “Did the militants in the South South, during their struggle, ever attacked worshippers in the mosque on Fridays? A lot of political hypocrisy must be going on here.

 “Are there no Muslins in the West, South and East of Nigeria? Why are they not shooting at people in churches who gather for worship? Why are they not throwing bombs at Christians? I believe some individuals are simply without any other mission other than breaking Nigeria.” 

 He said insecurity today remains the nation’s greatest albatross, dwarfing other national malaise like poverty, corruption, unemployment, among others. “Until we solve the security problems, we may not solve the economic problems. If you kill for the sake of conversion, can that dead man be convertible? Rather, you have lost a God-like asset for your nation and lost an opportunity to live a better life," he said.
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Police accuse Gov Oshiomhole of lying about assasination attempt

The police command in Edo State yesterday debunked allegations by Governor Adams Oshiomhole's camp that his convoy was attacked by suspected assassins on Thursday June 28th. 

 The Edo State Commissioner for Information had claimed that the governor's motorcade was shot at during his campaign rally on Thursday and accused Edo State PDP of being behind the attack. Now the police is saying the Governor was ambushed by protesting students and not assassins. 

Their statement after the cut... Press statement from Edo State Police Command signed by its spokesperson, Anthony Airhuoyo On Thursday, the governor, Comrade Adams Oshiomhole, went on a campaign tour to Usen Town in Ovia South West Area of Edo State. 

The governor, while on his way to the campaign venue, met the students of the Institute of Technology and Management, Usen, and promised to address them on his way back. After the campaign, at about 6.15pm, the governor decided to address them on a later date as it was already getting late. 

But the students barricaded the highway at the outskirts of the town and compelled the comrade governor to visit their institution." According to the police, no one was killed in the clash.
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Nigerian Soldiers Threaten To Go On Rampage In Sudan

Nigerian Soldiers currently on a United Nations Peace Keeping Operation in Dafur, Sudan have threatened to go on rampage if they are not airlifted out and paid allowances owed them on or before July 3, 2012. The stranded soldiers whose duty tour had expired after the mandatory six months are from the four Battalions: NIBATTSS 30, 31, 32 and 33 deployed in November 26, 2011 and January 12, 2012. Two have been confirmed dead from exhaustion and depression following negligence on the part of the Military Authorities to pay allowances owed and keeps to rotation schedules. 

 A petition sent to Pointblanknews.com by Concerned Soldiers in Dafur accused military hierarchy of corruption and negligence. They noted with anger that after the completion of the stipulated six months duty tour, the military hierarchy extended their duty tour with no explanation and provision for their families back home. 

The petition reads: “Nigeria which was an active participant in the UN peace keeping operations, widely commended for our previous performance of restoring peace in Sierra leone and Liberia, but presently we lost our respect especially in United Nations African Union Hybrid Missions in Darfur due to our ill equipment and corruption existing among top Nigerian who is who in peace support operation. “The situation of our peacekeepers is pitiable as if we don’t belong to any country. Nobody seems to listen to us or the plight of our family back home. 

Even though is against the ethics of military to go to press but we are pushed to the wall, nobody to listen our cry apart from the media. “As am writing now Nigerian Troops are Stranded In Nyala, sector south headquarters of the mission in Darfur, Sudan After The Expiration of Their 6 Months Tour of Duty – We have four Nigerian Battalions (NIBATTS 30, 31, 32 and 33) on duty in Darfur, Sudan deployed from 26 November, 2011 – 2 January, 2012 after successful completion of their mission they now stranded with no specific date for rotation. 

Our expected period of rotation to Nigeria is 26 May – 3 July, 2012 for the four battalions; up till the time of this report, we have not been rotated. This situation is very depressing and is dangerously affecting us and our loved ones back home. “NIBATT 31 was supposed to be rotated back to Nigeria between 31 May – 7 June, 2012.

 Out of the 800 troops that made up the battalion, only 115 were airlifted to Nigeria on 31 May; the remaining troops are still stranded in Sudan. They have added extra weeks to their official date of departure as well as NIBATT 30 which was supposed to be rotated back home on 26 May. “This situation is due to either negligence on the part of the Nigerian government or the Army in taking up their responsibilities abroad with respect to their men and women on tour of duty. 

And the worse nobody explain to us what is happening as if we are not humans, as if we dont have anyone that cares for us, as if we dont have the right to know what affect us. Our family are left helpless because we gave them only six months cheques, now we are more than six months here, our houses are crying of money to buy food, fuel generators, pay our children school fees. Last month a two soldiers fainted and gave up the ghost due to negligence, depression and uncertainty about our condition. 

Is our country that poor cannot charter a commercial flight to bring us back home or are we not needed back home? “As I write, Nigerian Army Peace Keeping Center (NAPKC) in Jaji is full of troops of the four Battalions that underwent training to rotate the stranded 4 Battalions here in Sudan. Also the FOB in Abuja where troops normally spend the night before they are airlifted to Sudan is filled up with troops awaiting airlift to Sudan. Sudan as we all know is a very hostile and a desert country with hash weather that makes living very unbearable. 

It is unwise for Nigeria to leave us to stay extra days, weeks or months in Sudan after the expiration of our tour of duty. “Other Contingents like Thailand, Sierra Leone, Bangladesh, Nepal, Egypt and South Africa have all rotated their troops with chartered planes with passenger seats of about 220. Nigerian Army is waiting for United Nations to organize their rotation for them with a plane carrying only 115 passengers, making us to rotate a battalion seven (7) times x 4.

 “I appeal to Nigerians to use their good offices in telling Mr. President, Senate President, Minister of Defense, Chief of Defense Staff and Chief of Army Staff as a matter of urgency to bring planes (bigger ones) to rotate the four Battalions in Sudan not later than 3 July or else we will create a scenario in Sudan which will deter the on-going peace process in Darfur. 3rd July is our ultimatum.

 Please publish this to the readership of those in Aso Rock. They are all sitting down in Nigeria eating from our sweat which a battalion generates a month ($700,000:00) for then in the UN. “We look forward to seeing this news publish today or tomorrow in the various dallies. Thank you and God bless.” Concern Soldiers in Darfur, Sudan. Email: tamunoblessing@yahoo.com
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